and What You Should Do Instead 

When you’re running a wedding business, it’s tempting to think: “If I build a vendor-specific directory and get a few of us listed, couples looking for exactly what I offer will show up, find me, and book.” In theory, that sounds reasonable. In practice? That’s rarely how couples plan their weddings, and if you rely only on a vendor-directory strategy, you’re locking yourself out of most of your potential bookings.

Here’s why vendor-specific directories seldom deliver, and why shifting focus to couple-centred directories (plus a smart multi-touchpoint funnel) is a far more reliable path to growth.

What’s wrong with vendor-only directories

• Vendors aren't the directories' customers - couples are.
  When couples begin wedding planning, they’re not thinking, “which vendor directory should I join?” They’re thinking, “what kind of wedding do we want, and who can help us bring it to life?” A directory made by vendors, for vendors may look clever to us - but it doesn’t resonate with couples, because it doesn’t reflect their journey, concerns, or emotional needs.
  Vendors pay to be visible on a directory to the couples, not to be booked on the spot. I consider it a vendor paying for the privilege to be considered by the couple. Can they find you and put you in a shortlist? Then they can envisage you as a part of their wedding day. 

• The competition is saturated and unfocused.
  If you launch a vendor-only site, you’re competing with hundreds (likely thousands) of others doing the same. Unless you have massive marketing muscle, your site will struggle to rank, attract traffic or build authority (and even with that muscle, that may not matter much longer). Couples will default to established platforms or Google-search results rather than new, untested vendor directories or individual websites for specific vendors.
  Vendors have stiff competition. The couple will have to see you over and again before they can accurately and positively picture their wedding day with you. 

• Lack of trust and social proof.
  Couples value transparency, reviews, responsiveness and ease of use. A generic directory doesn’t automatically give you that. Even if they find your profile, they still need to cross-reference reviews, reach out personally, and expect a good user experience. If your directory doesn’t give you all that, you’ll get little attention on your other touchpoints. 
  Then, you need to be there to catch them in other places. Your website, your social media, by phone or email, on other directories, in reviews before they commit to you. Are you waiting for them when they want you? Are you available when they need you? 

• It misses the “journey to yes.”
  Most couples don’t book after a single click or inquiry. According to industry-wide research: many couples browse multiple vendors before committing, read reviews, compare packages, and look for ease of communication. 
  A vendor-only directory counts as “one more vendor touchpoint” but without follow-up and a strong presence elsewhere, that alone rarely moves the needle

In short: a vendor-only directory treats vendors as the end user... but in reality, the couple (the soon-to-be-married couple) is the real customer.

What works instead: couple-centric directories + a multi-touchpoint approach

Based on my experience in the industry, and as someone with a background in business, marketing, SEO, and client experience - here’s what works.

Couples search across multiple channels

• Modern couples use a mix of social media, search engines and reputable wedding directories when they begin planning, make it easy for them to find you and want you

• They value quick communication: in fact, most couples expect response within hours or at the most, a day... and their booking decision often depends more on prompt, transparent communication than on perfect pricing 

• They read reviews. They look for social proof. They want clarity: what’s included, what the cost is, what the vibe feels like, how you'll support them best. You're the expert - they just want you to prove it

The “5-touchpoint minimum” logic

Firstly: what's a touchpoint? A touchpoint is any moment a couple interacts with your brand (online or offline) that builds trust, familiarity or credibility. The more high-quality touchpoints you create, the faster a couple sees you as a real option for their wedding.

Because couples often review multiple vendors before deciding, you need at least 5 meaningful touchpoints to stand out. These could include:

1. Listing on a well-established couple-centric directory where couples already go to look for ideas and vendors in bulk

2. Your own website with clear UX/UI (user experience and user interface), service descriptions, pricing or colour of your packages and social proof (reviews, testimonials, photos and videos)

3. Social media presence with consistent, engaging, visual storytelling; couples often start there for inspiration (I've put this as 1 touchpoint, but it is as many touchpoints as channels you have within your business and use effectively - reach out for a deeper conversation about this if you'd like more info, because this one is multifaceted and not as easy or straight forward as it seems)

4. Email / content marketing for example, writing a blog about your services or wedding-industry expertise (yes - I’m inviting all Aussie wedding vendors to do exactly that for free on our website, promoting themselves and getting high-authority backlinks)

5. Direct communication with leads via email, phone, text or DM. Prompt, friendly, expert response builds trust and moves potential couples toward enquiry or booking (often it is first-in, best dressed and couples want someone on-call to their timeline)

In other words: treat your presence online like a sales funnel, not just a directory listing or a guaranteed sale - you still have to do the work, but I can help you make it smoother and less involved.

Other touchpoints can also come from word-of-mouth from friends, family or other vendors and can be in person, such as attending awards ceremonies, wedding expos, venue showcases and walk-throughs, tastings and consultations, samples, swatches and look books. 

Every interaction at all with the name of your brand, business and personnel is considered a touchpoint at every step of the journey (yes, even AFTER they've ghosted you or gone on their merry way). 

A great example is that I often ask people to name 3 toothpaste brands, and the top 2 outperform most other brands consistently are 1. Colgate, and then 2. Oral B.

Then I ask  a follow up question: what brand of toothpaste do you use?

Want to know how many people name the brand they actually use #1 or #2... ONLY those who use Colgate or Oral B. Most people don't even rank their own brand in the top 3. 

Not because they don't know about that brand, but because those brands have marketed to be along all touchpoints imaginable from the customer journey, before we even needed them.

Ads played on TV in the 90s when I was a kid (not yet able to buy my own toothpaste) and now they're on social media, advertising to kids who live at home, who's parents and guardians buy their toiletries for them

& advertising on the best-selling kids toothbrushes though brand collabs with studios like Disney - to make the kids brush their teeth (a quick win for the parent struggling to get their kids to brush), and brand reinforcement to the kids who are exposed long before they even consider toothpaste brands - often not for decades into the future. 

THAT is the true power of touchpoints. 

Why using established couple-centric platforms is smart

Platforms like Easy Weddings, Wedshed, Wedlockers or Hello May (among others) already have the attention of couples planning weddings.

• These sites have high search-engine authority, SEO weight, and long-standing reputations, which a brand-new vendor directory would struggle to match.

• They are “one of many” touchpoints (not the only touchpoint) which aligns with the way couples research and decide.

• When combined with your own website, social media, email follow-up, and personalised outreach, they serve as a credible “first step” in a multi-channel strategy.

Relying on a vendor-only directory and expecting it to produce a steady stream of clients is, frankly, wishful thinking.

🛠 What vendors can do now

If you’re serious about growing your wedding business, consider the following strategy:

• Make sure you’re listed on reputable couple-centric directories (Easy Weddings, Wedshed, Hello May, etc.).

• Optimise your own website so it’s easy for couples to navigate, find pricing/packages, see photos, read reviews, and contact you quickly.

• Reach out to other vendors and get authoritative backlinks within the Australian wedding industry 
  

• Maintain active, engaging social-media channels: show behind-the-scenes, real weddings, testimonials, and personality.

• Build an email/follow-up system: first inquiries, follow-ups, nurture sequences, data capture.

• Be responsive and professional with every lead: treat each inquiry as a critical opportunity.

Want visibility - without the cost barrier?

If you run a wedding-related business and you’d like to expand your reach: send me a blog post that showcases your services/business. I’ll post it for free on the La Bella vendor directory. That will give you another credible, SEO-friendly “touchpoint” for couples planning their wedding.

Got questions? Reach out and I’m happy to help you think through any of the following:

• How to get more reviews

• Designing a customer funnel for your business specifically

• Re-engaging past enquiries or “warm leads”

• Ways to continue earning revenue from clients who didn’t choose you initially

• What to do with email data sets you collect (lead nurture, upselling, future offerings)

• Any other marketing, SEO or business-growth questions

I’ve got the education (Bachelor of Business, dual MBA candidate), real-world experience, and deep insight into what works (and what doesn’t) in the wedding industry.

This may be a tough read for some... but I believe these truths need to be said. For those of you building businesses in this space: visibility, credibility and consistent multi-channel engagement matter more than being a tiny cog in a vendor-only directory.

If you’d like help getting started, I'm here.

- Chel

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Written by: Chel Nash

Business Partner at SIFA Events, Manager at La Bella Wedding Umbrellas, Bachelor of Business (4.0+ GPA), Dual MBA Candidate in Entrepreneurship and HR